The Importance of Your Story: Why Answering the Right Questions Matters

At Right at Home Grantham & Newark, we believe that every client’s story matters. After just a short time spent with the people we care for, we uncover something extraordinary – a treasure chest of stories, history, and wisdom passed down through generations. These moments don’t always come from grand gestures, but from simple, honest conversations sparked by the right questions.

Many people underestimate the value of their own life experiences and heirlooms. Yet, these are the very things that form the fabric of a family’s legacy. As part of our companionship care services, we take the time to ask questions, listen deeply, and help preserve these memories for future generations.

The Hidden Value of Heirlooms

Heirlooms such as photo albums, china, jewellery, and handmade objects may seem outdated or less relevant in today’s fast-paced world. Previous generations often viewed these items as symbols of love, tradition, or achievement, while modern families may struggle to find ways to incorporate them into daily life.

But just because their function has changed doesn’t mean their value has diminished. These pieces hold powerful emotional meaning – and when paired with the stories behind them, they come alive again. Our dementia care in Grantham and Newark teams have seen first-hand how reconnecting with familiar objects and stories can spark joy, reduce anxiety, and strengthen identity for loved ones.

Stories Make Objects Matter

The key to reconnecting with these meaningful items – and with the people who pass them down – is storytelling. Life stories give context to heirlooms, transforming them into priceless family treasures.

Every question you ask is a chance to preserve something irreplaceable. That’s why our CareGivers are trained not only to provide practical support like personal care at home, but also to foster meaningful connections through conversation, patience, and curiosity.

Questions to Capture Life Stories

Childhood

• What was your childhood home like?

• What were your favourite games growing up?

• Did you have any family traditions or rituals?

School

• What were you like in school?

• Did you have a favourite subject?

• When did you feel like you were “grown up”?

Love

• How did you meet your spouse?

• What did you love most about them?

• What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever received?

Work

• What was your first job?

• What job did you love the most?

• What were your dreams or goals when you were younger?

World Events

• What major world events do you remember living through?

• How did those events impact your life?

• What has changed the most in the world since you were young?

Family

• What values did you try to instil in your kids?

• What was your proudest moment as a parent?

• How has your family changed over generations?

Wisdom

• What is your greatest achievement?

• If you could go back and give your younger self advice, what would you say?

• What lessons do you hope we carry forward?

How Right at Home Can Support Your Family Legacy

If you or a loved one is living at home – whether independently or with care support – we’re here to help. Our compassionate team offers homecare in Grantham, and across surrounding villages.

We provide tailored services such as:

• Dementia care – helping loved ones stay safe, engaged, and connected.

• Companionship care – meaningful conversations, shared activities, and preserving life stories.

• Personal care – dignified support with daily routines.

If you’d like support creating a memory project, or you’re exploring care options for a loved one near you, we’d love to assist.

📞 Call us today on 01476 833168 to learn more about how we can support your family.

Right at Home Grantham & Newark – where your story matters, and your care is always personal.