Home Care 101: What Every Family Needs to Know

Home Care 101: What Every Family Needs to Know

How Do I Know When My Elderly Parent Needs Home Care?

Watching a parent grow older can be an emotional journey. You may begin to notice small changes—a bit of forgetfulness, a few missed meals, or more time spent alone. It's natural to wonder: Is this just part of ageing, or is it time to get some help?

You’re not alone in asking this. Many families struggle to know when to step in, especially if their loved one insists they’re “just fine.” The good news is, you don’t have to wait for a crisis. Home care can be introduced gently, offering support while preserving your parent’s independence and dignity.

💡 Signs Your Elderly Parent May Need Home Care

Here are some of the most common signs that extra support at home could make a big difference:

1. Struggling With Everyday Tasks

• Clothes not washed, dishes piling up

• Difficulty preparing meals or skipping meals altogether

• Missed medication or confusion about when to take it

2. Changes in Appearance or Hygiene

• Wearing the same clothes repeatedly

• Unusual body odour or unbrushed hair

• Neglected personal grooming

3. Memory Lapses or Confusion

• Forgetting appointments, names, or recent conversations

• Getting lost in familiar places

• Repeating the same questions frequently

4. Mobility or Balance Issues

• Trouble walking or using stairs

• More bumps, bruises, or even unexplained falls

• Hesitance to go outside or leave the house

5. Mood or Behavioural Changes

• Increased anxiety, frustration, or withdrawal

• Losing interest in hobbies or social contact

• Becoming easily overwhelmed by tasks

6. Carer Burnout (That’s You!)

• Feeling constantly worried, stressed, or exhausted

• Juggling care with work or family life

• Wondering if you're doing enough—or doing it right

If you’re noticing one or more of these signs, it may be time to explore home care.

🏠 What Is Home Care—and How Can It Help?

Home care is not just about washing, dressing, or practical tasks (though we do those too). At its heart, it’s about helping someone live safely and comfortably in the place they know best: their own home.

At Right at Home Oxford, we provide:

• Companionship and emotional support

• Help with daily routines like meals, medication, and mobility

• Personal care, if needed, in a dignified and respectful way

• Tailored support that fits around your family’s lifestyle

We’re not here to replace family—we’re here to support you.

❤️ Why Starting Early Helps

Introducing care before a crisis means:

• Your parent can build a relationship with a carer gradually

• They stay independent longer, with gentle support

• You get peace of mind, knowing someone’s checking in

Home care isn’t about giving up control. It’s about gaining confidence that your loved one is safe, cared for, and not alone.

📞 Ready to Talk?

If you’re unsure whether now is the right time, that’s okay. We’re happy to have a friendly, no-pressure chat to help you decide what’s best for your family.

Contact us today:
📞 01865 988 899
📧 registeredmanager.oxford@rightathome.co.uk

You’re not in this alone—and when you’re ready, we’re here to help.