No Need to Hide the ‘Elephant in the Room'
What do we mean by ‘Elephant in the Room’? We do not need home care until we do and then it can often be a difficult conversation to have, whether we are the person needing support or friends and family who wish to help.
Published: 28/12/2025
Considering home care should not feel like a surrender; it should feel like a professional partnership designed to keep you safe, independent, and empowered in your own home.
Our team can help you address the ‘Elephant in the Room’ so you can live your best life.
Choosing the right home care can bring uncertainty and is sometimes avoided altogether, until a crisis hits. At Right at Home Nottingham, we believe in addressing the ‘elephant in the room’ with you.
Some people view home care as a loss of independence, when the truth is that the right support in your home is key to maintaining your health and wellbeing. By acknowledging your concerns, or the awkward questions, our professional team are ready to help, turning any daunting transition into a proactive step toward a better quality of living.
Your concerns, we are ready to listen
It is completely normal to feel hesitant. Here are some of the most common ‘elephants’ we encounter, and the reassuring reality of how we manage them:
"I don’t want a stranger in my house." We hear this most often. That’s why we operate and are proud of our ‘No Stranger Policy’. We do not just want to send whoever is on shift; we match carers based on personality and hobbies as much as possible. You will always receive familiar, reliable faces who respect your home and your privacy.
"I will lose my control and privacy." Good home care should not be restrictive. Our goal is to support your preferred routines, whether that’s how you like your tea or what time you prefer to get ready for your day. You remain the boss of your own schedule.
"Is it safe?" Safety is our foundation. We conduct monthly checks on alarms and lifelines, track falls history to help prevent future incidents, and sometimes perform rigorous medication audits to ensure the right dose is taken at the right time.
When is it a good time to talk
Waiting for an emergency often limits your choices. It might be time to explore professional home care and support if you notice:
Safety Worries: Increased falls or confusion due to memory decline.
Daily Frustration: Basic tasks like dressing, meal preparation or light housekeeping tasks are becoming exhausting.
Loneliness: Social isolation can impact mental well-being; sometimes, a friendly face for a chat and a walk is the best medicine.
Carer Burnout: If you are a family member providing care and feeling overwhelmed, you are not alone. Professional home care should be reliable and supportive, to allow you to go back to being a daughter, son, or spouse again.
Mairi M | Client"After breaking my wrist, later sustaining 'shock', the manager and her team arrived. With patience and skilful caring, each and every one of them contributed to restoring my health and confidence. I will be forever grateful to them for enabling my small dachshund (Willow) and me to enjoy once more our day walks and our joy in living. Their manager was always so calm and kind, setting a wonderful example for her team. She treated them so well. They cared for Willow as well as for me."
How Do I Choose the Right Home Support?
Choosing a provider is a significant decision. To ensure you receive high-quality care, use these professional benchmarks:
Check the CQC Rating: The Care Quality Commission (CQC) is the independent regulator in England. Look for a provider with an "Outstanding" rating. They filter by location and type of care, ensuring you find a provider that is safe, effective, and well-led.
Verify Training and Satisfaction: Ask to see client and carer survey results. At Right at Home Nottingham, we are proud of our 100% Client Satisfaction rate and the fact that 100% of our staff would recommend our services to others.
Review the "What’s On" Guide: A good provider should be connected to the community, helping you access local groups and outings to keep you socially active.
"Every day, I witness the power of the trusted home support our team provide. It empowers our clients to live life on their terms. Our older generation deserve the very best, and that is why we are committed to raising the bar." - Christopher Tansley | Managing Director
Ready to Start the Conversation?
Do not let the ‘elephant in the room’ prevent you from accessing the support you deserve. Whatever your support needs are, our team is ready to provide a smooth, transparent transition.
Read more here about the "Next Steps" we can also print out a guide for family members to help start this conversation?
You can use the Care Quality Commission (CQC) website to find local support services that meet your healthcare needs. They have a search function that allows you to filter by the type of care needed and location. The CQC also rates care services on a scale from "outstanding" to "inadequate" so you can choose a high-quality provider. This helps ensure you get the best possible care for yourself or a family member.
Know more about how the Care Quality Commission (CQC) .
People in England seeking healthcare can leverage the Care Quality Commission (CQC) as a vital tool for safeguarding their well-being.
This independent regulator, overseen by the Department of Health and Social Care, meticulously inspects healthcare providers. Here’s how they can help with your search.
Find quality care: CQC inspections help identify high-performing care providers.
Makes informed choices: Ratings empower you to make the best decision about your care.
Protects your well-being: The CQC takes action against poor services, ensuring your safety.
Provides clear information: Reports offer in-depth details about care providers, allowing you to make informed choices.
Right at Home Nottingham are ready to help.
With over 11 years of experience successfully serving Nottingham many families, we can guide you through your home care journey. Our team are dedicated to providing the right personalised home support. Contact us today for a no obligation consultation. 0115 8800911